Hey Girls!! Here is another video I did with a crazy filter on my cam but it is something God has really been working on me lately about. Seriously. I would love your thoughts. Most of all I hope it makes you think seriously!! I know lately I have. Check out my video…

Hey Girls! Another vid to add to my video blog. I made it tonight. I am so not tech-y so I don’t know how to get my sound to work better or catch up to myself. (It get’s off toward the end… ) But, here it is! I so wanted to share with you this thought so I will post it anyway! The video speaks for itself…. oh, and don’t laugh at my glasses!! I used them for a prop. I thought that it would work for that. Since I am talking about 3D …haha.

I am reading a good book right now called “A Man Worth Waiting For – How to avoid a bozo.” The moral of the book is that there are so many nice girls who want to do what’s right and have such high standards in what they want in a man… They wait for him and he “never” comes along…. therefore they settle. For a LOOOOSER!! My greatest and legitimate fear. As it should be. There are so many high quality girls out there with dreams and desires, GOOD dreams, desires and hopes… and I believe we allow those dreams, desires and hopes though they are good and God given, to overtake our love dedication and commitment to our first love – Jesus. Because when the test comes… and he doesn’t come right away.. we settle. We just cannot allow this to happen. I would recommend you stop by the Christian bookstore and pick up this book to encourage you along the way.

I have dreams, desires and hopes of course. I look forward to the day that I connect with that one. I think about it, though not as much now as I did when I was younger and I pray about it… But I was talking to my mom the other day and I told her,

“You know? The longer I stay single… the happier I am that I have waited. I am proud (in a good way) of the fact that I am almost 26 years old and single. I really, really am!”

I like to tell people how old I am. I challenged my Aunt Linda that I would beat her out in our “Who can stay single the longest” game. I am winning I am also winning against my brothers and sisters. I am happy in what God has taught me and I am excited about the future. To be honest I have heard girls cry or complain about being single and I understand the feelings…. the same girls have then got married and cried and complained about their husband or their children or their lack of free time… it just continues!

Quote from “A Man Worth Waiting For” : Men worth waiting for exhibit self-control in all they do. When a man does not demolish the pretentious lusts that would seduce him, he may someday sell out his life for mere minutes of pleasure.”

And I know men like this. We just can’t afford to lose faith. We have to be strong women. We cannot settle. You can’t afford to marry a loser. And I swear… some of us attract loser’s well. So how long are you willing to wait? For the right one? That is the test my dear single friends. Do you really believe good things come to those who wait? And if you are single for the rest of your life.. what a nightMARE! (I am kidding) It would be so much better to live a life of happy single hood than to settle for someone that isn’t worth a text, much less you. God help us wait for a man…. who is worth the wait. God bless you my girlfriends I have a feeling he will be well worth the wait… notice the key word. Wait.